Accept query options in live queries and React hooks

[psh4607]

작업 배경

useLiveQuery did not expose PGlite query options, preventing callers from requesting result formats such as rowMode: 'array'. The live-query core API also needed to accept the same options so React could forward them consistently.

티켓 및 링크

• Closes #218

작업 내용

• Add QueryOptions support to positional and object forms of live.query while preserving the existing positional callback API.
• Forward query options from React's useLiveQuery and stabilize inline option objects to avoid unnecessary resubscriptions.
• Apply result options consistently to initial results and subsequent live updates while keeping metadata queries on object rows.
• Support parameter types and custom serializers during live-query formatting without double serialization.
• Add runtime, React, and public type coverage plus patch changesets for PGlite and PGlite React.
• Keep incremental live queries out of scope because their update/merge path requires separate handling.

테스트

• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite build
• pnpm -C packages/pglite exec vitest run tests/live.test.ts (48 passed)
• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite typecheck
• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite stylecheck
• pnpm -C packages/pglite-react exec vitest run test/hooks-options.test.tsx (1 passed)
• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite-react typecheck
• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite-react stylecheck
• pnpm --filter @electric-sql/pglite-react build