Stable 25.8 Backport of #116836 - jemalloc: lower lg_extent_max_active_fit to default 6, to reduce fragmentation

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jemalloc: lower lg_extent_max_active_fit to default 6, to reduce fragmentation

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• Performance Improvement

Changelog entry (a user-readable short description of the changes that goes to CHANGELOG.md):

jemalloc: lower lg_extent_max_active_fit to default 6, to reduce fragmentation (ClickHouse#116836 by @azat)

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• Fast test
• Integration Tests
• Stateless tests
• Stateful tests
• Unit tests
• Performance tests
• Aarch64 tests
• All with ASAN
• All with TSAN
• All with MSAN
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• All with Coverage
• All Regression
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Regression jobs to run:

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• Aggregate Functions (2h)
• Alter (1.5h)
• Benchmark (30m)
• CAS (content-addressed storage; Antalya only)
• ClickHouse Keeper (1h)
• Iceberg (2h)
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• OAuth (5m)
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• S3 Export (2h)
• Swarms (30m)
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